1 CORINTHIANS 13
Heart Issues
There is so much that could be written on this chapter. We have heard it at every wedding and may have memorized the passage, but what chapter should be more driven into our hearts. I feel like a baby sometimes in my ability to love. I am too often driven by my own priorities and my desires. I want to love unselfishly and unmotivated by me, but it is so hard. This chapter is very challenging as I look at my marriage and how often I do not love like love is defined. I find too often in me some of the attributes that love is not. My desire and my hope is to honor God with my love as well as my wife and all whom I know. I have also read recently that I will never know my capacity to love until it has been tested. I learn more and more in life as I walk through marriage, but even more through my journey in fatherhood. Love is what binds all things together in perfect unity.
Notes
-He begins by referring to the last chapter which is so easily forgotten when you begin the love chapter. He shows that he could possess all spiritual gifts and do anything, but if it is not motivated by love it is annoying and profits nothing. Love is as the last verse in chapter 12 noted, the most excellent way.
-It begins with two things that love is, then begins to contrast what its not. Patience is huge when thinking about love. He begins here and it is very fitting as the word love is thrown around so much in anticipation of physical affection. When I think about dating relationships patience and kindness are the two attributes that are the most lacking. They start off really kind, but end up pretty nasty.
-Jealousy, boasting, and pride are not parts of love. They are not centered on the object of the love, but on their own selfishness.
-Vv. 5 and 6 continue the litany of contrasts as it is so hard to define what love is, but it is easy to determine what it is not. The major way that I define love is sacrifice because the things that do not define love are easy, but the things that are attributes of love are hard. When love is rewarded with love the sacrifice doesn’t seem like a sacrifice at all, but the greatest award of life.
-I preached a wedding on the last four attributes of love. Protection, trust, hope, and perseverance are some of the most foundational parts of a marriage. They are pillars that hold up each other and allow for a solid marriage. It ends with perseverance which is a cornerstone in building trust, hope and protection. Knowing that no matter what you’re staying together is one of the most powerful parts of marriage or any relationship.
-Love never fails but so much else in this life will fail us. Even the spiritual gifts that have been discussed at length will let us down because we only know in part now. We only love in part now for our love is tainted with other feelings and we are more about ourselves than the beloved all too often.
-Our understanding as a baby is the same as our understanding now when compared to our heavenly understanding. We shall know fully although now we only know in part.
-These three things will stand the test of time and eternity. Faith, hope, and love will never end. It makes you wonder what we would still have hope for in heaven, but I can understand that we will still trust God as free worshippers of Him in heaven.